Back pocket list
A bucket list is a grand thing to have and do. It is a list to drive towards, ever pulling in the direction of getting it ticked before that "kicked" happens.
Another list worth keeping is the back pocket list. This list is a list of events, activities, and projects you want to do. If you don't, then that's ok too.
The back pocket list exists only to cross-reference constantly with other people.
When you find overlap, you get the joy of finishing something with someone.