Making the Up moments ours
Some research shows that objectively, parents are worse off emotionally, mentally, and physically than non-parents.
But, because us humans have an extraordinary ability to foreground in crystalised colourful frequencies the Up moments with kids — we continue to procreate and belief-enough that we are happy.
We have this biological capability.
We get to also apply it to all the moments in life that we want to collect, and make part of what we call Our Life.