Move towards the paradox
When I encounter a paradox that does not want to resolve itself, no matter how hard I try: I know I found a source of continuous growth.
The latest is this: I want to change people. I want to stop them from wanting to change other people.
We can exist in paradox. We can consider context, and applicability. And do it in a way that only feels like it resolves the paradox. And never truly does. Which is another paradox.
Life is turtles all the way down, until you hit paradox, and then you start to learn.